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<h2>When Christmas Doesn’t&nbsp;</h2><h2>Feel</h2><h2>&nbsp;Like Christmas</h2><h2>It’s Christmas Eve…but if I’m honest, I don’t feel “super Christmas-y” this year.</h2>The lights are up. The music is playing. There’s a little snow on the ground. The decorations are beautiful. All the things that should make it feel like Christmas are technically here……and yet the feeling isn’t.I’ve been thinking about why. Part of it is life and where I’m at right now. My mom is in Syracuse, spending Christmas alone. My son is there too—working. My daughter is in heaven, and recently, our pup went to join her. There’s definitely a layer of loneliness this year.But at the same time, I’m grateful. I have my wife here with me. We have a few close friends to share time and laughter with. There is warmth in that. There is comfort in the people still here. There is appreciation mixed in with the ache.And I’ve heard so many people say the same thing lately…“Christmas just feels different this year.”After sitting with it a while, I think I’ve landed on this:Christmas doesn’t magically feel like Christmas just because the calendar says so.It feels like Christmas when we slow down enough to make space for the moments that carry meaning.It’s the little things that used to be “normal,” but now take intention.It’s about the little things we used to slow down and make time for.Baking cookies with family.Writing out cards by hand instead of firing off a quick text.Wrapping a gift thoughtfully instead of just getting it done.Talking with friends or family we don’t see as often as we should.Caroling, sledding, skating on a frozen lake……the little moments that make the season feel like something.Life doesn’t slow down on its own anymore.We live in a world obsessed with efficiency, optimization, speed, and doing more with less time. Somewhere in chasing “productive” lives, we accidentally cut out a lot of the heart.Even I—someone who literally built a resort around slowing down and being intentional—struggle to actually live that way sometimes.And if I’m struggling to make space for the things that make Christmas feel like Christmas…what’s the rest of the society feeling like?Stressed? Overwhelmed? Disappointed that another year’s passed and we struggled even more with carving out time for the things that help our hearts catch up to the season.And yet…there’s still something deeply hopeful beneath all of this.Because Christmas, at its core, is rooted in hope.It’s rooted in Jesus—His birth, His love, His sacrifice,and the reminder that He came for every single one of us.Not just the people who never miss church.Not just the ones with perfect prayers and tidy lives.He came for the broken, the tired, the grieving, the joyful, the overwhelmed, the faithful, the lost, the hopeful, and the ones still figuring it out…even the hot messes in the crowd. &nbsp;ALL OF US. &nbsp;Ya know…Christmas isn’t missing.We just have to slow down enough to feel it.So whether Christmas feels magical for you this year or a little quiet…Whether your heart is full or a little heavy…Whether you’re surrounded by people or missing someone deeply…Maybe this year we give ourselves permission to:Sit a little longer.Look people in the eye.Say the thing we’ve been meaning to say.Call the person we’ve been “too busy” to call.Wrap one gift with intention.Bake the cookies.Use the fine china and the special silverware.&nbsp;Light the candle.Take the walk.Appreciate the moment we’re actually in.Life doesn’t automatically create meaningful moments.We do.And maybe that’s the gift we can still give ourselves this Christmas. Do the little things that set this time apart from the rest of the year. &nbsp;Even if it’s more work…it’s worth it. &nbsp;The world will be better because you took the time. The people around you will also appreciate it. &nbsp;Merry Christmas, friends.I hope wherever you are tonight, you feel seen, loved, remembered, and not alone. 🎄

When Christmas doesn’t feel like Christmas

Mental Recovery: The Most Overlooked Wellness Practice of Our TimeOver the last decade, the world has fallen in love with “recovery.” Cold plunges, PEMF therapy, red light panels, grounding mats, supplements, breathwork — practices that would’ve been labeled “witchcraft” twenty years ago are now mainstream and celebrated as cutting-edge wellness.But for all the focus on physical optimization, there’s a part of wellness we’re still not treating with the same intentionality:Mental recovery.Not mental health as a vague concept…Not “taking a break”…Not “self-care” in the commercialized sense…I’m talking about the deliberate, structured recovery of the mind — the same way athletes recover their bodies.And the truth is, this idea has been weighing heavy on my heart lately. A close friend recently attempted suicide, and several others in my circle have been touched by similar battles. This time of year especially seems to press down on people silently and relentlessly.It made me realize something:We know exactly how to recover physically — but almost no one knows how to recover mentally.Ask people how to bounce back after a marathon or a hard workout and they can list ten strategies off the top of their heads. But ask how they help their minds recover from chronic stress, emotional overload, grief, decision fatigue, burnout, or trauma… and you get some version of:“I just need a little break.”But a “little break” is not mental recovery. <figure id="figure-i65uj6luymiyqpwt1" class=""><img id="i65uj6luymiyqpwt1" class="bg-gray-100 object-cover" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure> Mental Stress is Physical Stress — And Science Proves ItThis isn’t theory, feeling, or opinion.NIH research shows that chronic mental strain activates the same biological stress pathways as physical overtraining or injury. When your mind is overloaded, your body responds the same way it would if you were hurt.According to the National Institutes of Health:“Chronic psychological stress activates the neuroendocrine and biological systems responsible for inflammation, immune suppression, metabolic disruption, and hormonal imbalance.”(NIH, Stress and Health)In other words:When the mind stays stressed, the body breaks down.It’s not “in your head.” It’s in your cells.This means mental recovery isn’t optional — it’s foundational. It’s as essential as muscle rest, hydration, sleep, and physical recovery routines. <figure id="figure-6lahishpmmiyqhl8r" class=""><img id="6lahishpmmiyqhl8r" class="bg-gray-100 object-cover" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure> Rest Isn’t Just Sleep — It’s Seven Different TypesThe American Psychological Association identifies seven types of rest — mental, sensory, emotional, creative, social, physical, and spiritual. Most of us meet one or two (usually physical rest and maybe emotional rest), but almost no one intentionally meets all seven.Mental recovery often requires:sensory rest (stepping away from screens, alerts, noise) mental rest (letting the mind be still, even briefly) emotional rest (safe space to feel without performing) creative rest (nature, art, quiet inspiration) These types of rest aren’t luxuries — they’re actual biological needs. <figure id="figure-mbq9hkcooomiyqgps8" class=""><img id="mbq9hkcooomiyqgps8" class="bg-gray-100 object-cover" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure> Deep Rest Is a Biological Reset — Not a LuxuryUCSF published research describing “deep rest” — activities that reset the nervous system and undo the cellular wear and tear caused by chronic stress.We’re talking about simple things like:walking in nature meditative breathing quiet reflection journaling unplugging from technology sensory deprivation mindfulness practices These aren’t feel-good extras — they literally reverse the physical damage caused by overload. <figure id="figure-xgtvtcuhaqmiyqfjp1" class=""><img id="xgtvtcuhaqmiyqfjp1" class="bg-gray-100 object-cover" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure> Time Is Precious — Life Is PricelessThere’s only one thing more precious than time, and that’s life itself. And yet most of us treat our time like it’s cheap — something we’ll always have more of, something we’ll get around to later.But mental recovery requires intentional time carved out on purpose — not squeezed in “if there’s time.”Sometimes that means taking 15–30 minutes in the morning, evening, or midday to pause.Sometimes that means putting a hard stop on your phone, closing the laptop, and breathing in silence.Most people never give themselves that space unless they’re forced to. <figure id="figure-enbo739ysmiyqf0wo" class=""><img id="enbo739ysmiyqf0wo" class="bg-gray-100 object-cover" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9;"></figure> Sometimes You Need a Bigger ResetThere are times when the mind can’t recover within the same environment that’s draining it.That’s when intentional disconnection becomes essential — stepping away from the noise, the expectations, the roles, and the constant stimulus of everyday life.For some people, that’s a silent retreat.For others, a weekend in the woods.For some, it’s a guided wellness experience, therapy, or meditation retreat.And for many, it’s simply being somewhere quiet, calm, and free of distractions — a place where the mind doesn’t just “rest,” it recovers.Sandstone is one example of that kind of reset — a space built intentionally for quiet connection, fewer distractions, stillness, conversation, nature, and breathing room. Not as a sales pitch, but as a reminder:Sometimes stepping away is the only way the mind can actually heal. <figure id="figure-9tbco7nrphmiyqejz4"><img id="9tbco7nrphmiyqejz4" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/32aLq2svXTwxQUIT2e1UhQBohTALSTIzdkkr4MdTGdxiTDokffQlYDsUAtNSSwYn.jpg" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-lg md:rounded-xl lg:rounded-2xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/32aLq2svXTwxQUIT2e1UhQBohTALSTIzdkkr4MdTGdxiTDokffQlYDsUAtNSSwYn.jpg" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure> Mental Recovery Should Become the Next Wellness RevolutionWe’ve normalized cold plunges.We’ve normalized red light therapy.We’ve normalized energy work, biohacking, intermittent fasting, and breathwork.Now we need to normalize mental recovery.Not as an afterthought.Not as a stigma.Not as something to hide.But as a daily and weekly practice — a wellness modality every bit as real as the ones we adopt for the body.Because caring for the mind is caring for the body.And caring for the body requires caring for the mind.If we can give our minds the same respect we give our muscles, our breath, our diet, our sleep, our supplements — we might save more people from invisible battles they’re fighting in silence.And we might give ourselves a chance to breathe, reset, reconnect, and heal in ways we didn’t even realize we needed.When we give our minds a true opportunity to recover, everything in life shifts. We become more present. More even-keeled. Less reactive. More patient. More intentional. We communicate better. We notice more. We feel more grounded and less overwhelmed.Mental recovery isn’t just about feeling better — it’s about living better. Living more life, not just pushing through it.And here’s the honest challenge:Most of us have no idea how mentally fatigued we actually are.We’ve normalized stress. We’ve normalized being overwhelmed. We’ve normalized running on fumes.So before anything else, I want to encourage you to pause and do a quick self-assessment. Nothing complicated — just an honest check-in with yourself.Ask:How often do I feel mentally drained? How often am I truly present? Do I make intentional time for quiet and stillness? Do I have recovery routines for my mind — not just my body? When was the last time I did something for mental restoration, not distraction? If you’re unsure where to start, I’ve created a simple worksheet — a quick scorecard — to help you see where you really are on the stress/recovery spectrum. Sometimes just seeing it in front of you is the wake-up call.And if you discover you’re running high on mental stress and low on mental recovery, you’re not alone — and you’re not stuck. Small daily resets and intentional restorative moments can make a massive difference. And sometimes, stepping away into quiet, into nature, into a place without distractions, can give your mind the space it’s been trying to find for years.Whatever path you choose — whether it’s morning stillness, journaling, sensory rest, unplugging, meditation, or a quiet retreat like Sandstone — I hope you choose something.Your mind deserves to recover just as much as your body does.Your life is too precious to live in survival mode. <figure id="figure-jf0vk6kn4nmiyqdpju"><img id="jf0vk6kn4nmiyqdpju" alt="" title="" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-lg md:rounded-xl lg:rounded-2xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure> Mental Recovery Assessment WorksheetSimple, score-based, and built to pair with your blog post. SECTION 1 — Daily Mental Load (Score 1–5 Each)Rate how often these statements are true for you:1 = Never • 5 = Almost AlwaysI feel mentally tired even when I’ve done nothing physical. I find it hard to focus or stay present in conversations. I feel overloaded by noise, screens, or social interaction. My mood swings or irritability feel tied to exhaustion or overwhelm. I feel like I’m always “on,” even during downtime. Subtotal: ____ / 25 SECTION 2 — Current Recovery Practices (Reverse Score, 5–1)Rate how often you intentionally do the following:5 = Never • 1 = Almost AlwaysI take at least 15 minutes of quiet time daily. I unplug from technology intentionally (not just when I forget my phone). I spend time in nature or calming environments each week. I practice any form of mental or emotional rest (journaling, meditation, prayer, reflection). I give myself guilt-free time to wind down or decompress. Subtotal: ____ / 25 SECTION 3 — Lifestyle Balance Indicators (1–5 Each)1 = Strongly Disagree • 5 = Strongly AgreeI feel I have margin in my week — actual breathing room. My relationships feel connected, not rushed. I sleep well and wake up feeling mentally refreshed. I can enjoy silence without feeling uncomfortable. I feel emotionally steady and rarely overwhelmed. Subtotal: ____ / 25 TOTAL SCORE:&nbsp;____ / 75Interpretation:60–75: High Mental Stress / Low Recovery You’re likely in chronic mental fatigue. Your mind needs intentional recovery — immediately. Recommendations: unplugging, daily quiet time, sensory rest, a weekend reset, journaling, nature immersion. 40–59: Moderate Stress / Inconsistent Recovery You’re managing but not thriving. Small daily practices will make a big difference. Recommendations: set a daily 20-minute quiet window, reduce screen load, practice mindful breaks. 15–39: Healthy / Balanced You’re maintaining mental recovery well. Keep guardrails in place to prevent slipping. Recommendations: continue routines, schedule periodic resets, protect boundaries.

Mental Recovery: The Most Overlooked Wellness Practice of Our Time

“Time is what we want most, when our clock has but moments left… it’s the one thing that means the most, but what we manage poorly.” William Penn/Cale Schorer Time. We crave more of it, chase it, and yet, somehow, waste it. Sandstone Rustic Retreat was created to make space for those few precious moments of life we are intentional about — spending time with the people who mean the most, while we still have them.It’s not about the price of a stay… it’s about how much that time is worth when the clock runs out.&nbsp; A Reflection from the Heart As I reflect today — the four-year anniversary of my daughter Peyton’s passing — I think about how most people don’t know our story. They don’t know our heartache or our struggles. But what they do understand is being busy.Life has a way of sweeping you away like an angry river current if you’re not careful to protect your time — to be intentional about who you spend it with, and how you spend it when you’re together.Faces in screens, or face to face?I’ve seen the wasted time I can’t get back — moments lost with an amazing young girl, and with my son too. Things we think are important fade fast when you’re faced with the reality that, in the blink of an eye, your loved ones could be gone. Without a goodbye. Without a hug. Without an “I’m sorry.” Or an “I love you more than all the stars in the sky.”We all fight this battle — some do better than others — but I know, looking around me, that too many of us are out of bandwidth. Our lives get filled with “important stuff.” But if we had to choose between all that stuff or one more moment with a spouse, parent, or child who’s gone or soon could be, we’d see just how little that “stuff” really matters.&nbsp; Creating Space for What Lasts That’s why Sandstone exists — as a reminder to slow down, breathe deep, and be with the ones you love while you can.Whether it’s sitting under a sky full of stars, sharing morning coffee on the deck, or walking side by side through the woods — these are the moments that make life rich.We can’t add more time to our lives, but we can fill the time we do have with meaning. And sometimes, that means turning off the noise of the world long enough to remember what — and who — truly matters most.&nbsp; #sandstonerusticretreat #morestarslesspeople #gonetoosoon #forever17

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Discover the Perfect Holiday Getaway at Sandstone Rustic RetreatAs the holiday season approaches, there’s no better time to escape the ordinary and immerse yourself in the quiet charm of nature. Sandstone Rustic Retreat, nestled near Wisconsin Dells, offers the ideal setting for a holiday getaway—whether you’re planning an intimate escape for two or a larger gathering with family and friends.A Holiday Haven for Families and FriendsSandstone’s expansive property is a natural wonderland, blending the rustic appeal of the Wisconsin countryside with all the cozy comforts you’d want for a holiday retreat. Our modern, rustic cabins and unique glamping domes are designed to bring people together, making it the perfect setting for family reunions, friends reconnecting, or groups looking to celebrate the holidays away from the hustle and bustle. With amenities for cooking, gathering, and exploring, Sandstone creates a warm, inviting space that’s perfect for creating memories.Romance and Solitude for CouplesIf you’re dreaming of a peaceful holiday just for two, our retreat is an intimate escape from the world. Picture crisp winter air, quiet trails through sandstone canyons, and nights under a star-lit sky. Our cozy cabins provide a warm, comfortable sanctuary to unwind and connect in a serene, natural setting. Take a winter stroll through our trails, enjoy the tranquil beauty of the Wisconsin River, and experience a holiday getaway that’s all about recharging and savoring the quiet moments together.Nature’s Seasonal BeautySandstone Rustic Retreat transforms in the winter months, offering breathtaking views of snow-capped sandstone cliffs, towering trees dusted with frost, and clear, bright winter skies. Our private trails provide an inviting path through these seasonal wonders, perfect for a winter hike or snowshoe adventure. The beauty of nature is right outside your door, creating a perfect backdrop for photography, meditation, or simply enjoying the peace of the season.Enjoy a Secluded, Comfortable StayOur retreat offers everything you need to settle in and enjoy a stress-free holiday. Each cabin is designed for warmth and comfort, with modern amenities paired with rustic charm. And while you’re far from the hustle of the city, you’re never far from convenience—our location provides easy access to nearby winter activities, as well as shops and restaurants if you feel like venturing out.Book Your Holiday Getaway TodayAt Sandstone Rustic Retreat, we’re here to help you create the holiday experience you’ve been dreaming of, whether it’s filled with family laughter or quiet moments by the fire. Book your stay now and discover why Sandstone is the perfect place to celebrate this season. We look forward to welcoming you to our winter wonderland!

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<h2>The Importance of Mental Health and How Sandstone Rustic Retreat Can Help You Heal</h2>In today's fast-paced world, mental health has become more crucial than ever. We face a constant barrage of stressors, from the demands of work and family life to the unexpected challenges and tragedies that can arise without warning. Maintaining mental well-being is not just about managing stress but also about finding the time and space to process, unpack, and cope with life's inevitable ups and downs.**Why Mental Health Matters**Mental health is the foundation of our overall well-being. It affects how we think, feel, and act, influencing every aspect of our lives, from our relationships and work performance to our physical health. Poor mental health can lead to a range of issues, including anxiety, depression, and even chronic health conditions. On the other hand, prioritizing mental health can lead to greater resilience, improved emotional regulation, and a higher quality of life.One of the most effective ways to nurture mental health is by taking intentional time away from daily stressors to reflect, recharge, and reconnect with oneself. This is where retreats and nature-based getaways can play a transformative role.**How Sandstone Rustic Retreat Provides Healing Space**Sandstone Rustic Retreat, nestled near Wisconsin Dells, offers more than just a peaceful escape; it provides a sanctuary where you can focus on your mental health in a natural, serene environment. The benefits of spending time in nature are well-documented—nature has been shown to reduce stress, lower blood pressure, and improve mood and cognitive function.At Sandstone Rustic Retreat, the tranquil surroundings, including lush forests, sandstone canyons, and the calming flow of the Wisconsin River, offer a perfect backdrop for mental rejuvenation. Here, you can disconnect from the digital world and reconnect with yourself. Whether you're hiking the private trails, meditating by the river, or simply enjoying the silence of the woods, the retreat provides a space to breathe, think, and heal.**Processing Life's Challenges**Life can be overwhelming, especially when dealing with personal challenges or tragedies. A place like Sandstone Rustic Retreat allows you to step back from the chaos and give yourself the time needed to process emotions and experiences. The solitude and quietness of the retreat offer a conducive environment for reflection, where you can gain clarity on your thoughts and emotions without the distractions of everyday life.Whether you're dealing with grief, stress, or simply the need to decompress, being in a place that encourages mindfulness and self-care can make all the difference. Sandstone’s secluded cabins and glamping sites provide the privacy needed to work through difficult emotions at your own pace, without feeling rushed or pressured.**Building Resilience**In addition to processing and coping with challenges, retreats like Sandstone Rustic Retreat can help you build resilience. Resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity, and it is strengthened by taking time to care for your mental health. The retreat's combination of natural beauty, physical activity options, and opportunities for quiet contemplation can help you recharge and return to daily life with renewed strength and perspective.**Conclusion**Prioritizing mental health is not a luxury; it's a necessity. Taking time to care for your mental well-being can have profound effects on your overall health and happiness. Sandstone Rustic Retreat offers a unique opportunity to step away from the pressures of life and focus on what truly matters—your mental and emotional well-being. Whether you're looking to process challenges, cope with life's difficulties, or simply find some peace, Sandstone Rustic Retreat provides the perfect setting to do just that.<figure id="figure-v0cd33bkrdm0gdsi6i"><img id="v0cd33bkrdm0gdsi6i" src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/12iJrZfmf5riu5aFkPRa78K0yTVzD0jOklEAuscTCUAMP7tSsgMncK1KwvzxOI1J.png" alt="Najomtien beach Pattaya Thailand, sunset at a tropical beach with palm trees" title="Najomtien beach Pattaya Thailand, sunset at a tropical beach with palm trees" class="object-cover bg-gray-100 rounded-lg md:rounded-xl lg:rounded-2xl" style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;" data-corners="default" data-aspect="16:9" data-caption="" data-positionx="undefined" data-positiony="undefined" data-fullwidth="false" data-mce-src="https://cdn.durable.co/blocks/12iJrZfmf5riu5aFkPRa78K0yTVzD0jOklEAuscTCUAMP7tSsgMncK1KwvzxOI1J.png" data-mce-style="aspect-ratio: 16/9; object-position: center center;"></figure>

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we are a boutique experiential travel resort called Sandstone Rustic Retreat.  We are located in Wisconsin Dells and we are one of a kind in our region as we are the only resort in the Midwest to offer Mirrored Glamping Domes and cabins for an unplugged and distraction free environment to unwind, unplug and tune out the noise of the world. We also have a wedding venue that marries our accommodations to a unique wedding in the woods experience.  Our property encompasses 13ac of river front and canyons

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